- 13 Set 2011, 20:31
#368254
Diego!
When attracting a woman if you try too hard it TURNS HER OFF.
To a woman trying too hard means you're a needy guy who
doesn't date often.
Pick Up Artists call guys like this "Dancing Monkeys." A woman
might enjoy the Dancing Monkey's show but she'll never go
home with him, her friends would laugh at her.
The true art of Pick Up Artistry is making attraction, a complex
process, look effortless. I want you to successfully use
everything you've learned about being interesting by using
demonstration of higher vale routines (abbreviated DHV)
successfully. I don't want you to ever be laughed at as the
Dancing Monkey.
Here's three powerful tips to remember for delivering your PUA
routines so she always sees you as the cool, interesting guy,
not the dancing monkey:
1. It’s Your Frame – you want to be amused - when you use a
PUA routine never do it for a reaction or validation from the
woman you're trying to attract. Instead adopt the attitude "It's
my world and I'm doing these things because they interest or
amuse me."
2. Don't Be Low Value - Never ever preface your routines by
saying things like "Watch me do this!" A cool guy doesn't ask
for attention, he already assumes it because of his personality.
Never ever – and I mean EVER – look for a reaction (applause,
smile, etc.) during or AFTER you are performing your routines.
And when possible perform your DHVs for the woman in the
group who isn't your target and just tell the target if she
behaves she can watch. Eventually she'll beg for attention
too and her jealousy of the attention you've given her friend
will build attraction.
3. Manage Your Performance - don't perform obvious DHV
routines directly after each other. For example don't read
Tarot cards, do a magic trick, then throw the rune stones
back to back. Limit your very obvious "performance" type
routines by mixing them up with DHV stories and social games
like the "Best Friends Test."
And if someone says "Oh, do that again!" don't comply. You
don't perform on command, only at your own will. If asked to
repeat just say with a smile, "That's a one time only thing, but
it reminds me of…" and change the subject.
There's a lot to remember when building attraction. The more
you practice the more it looks effortless. Use these tips, go
out tonight and practice, practice, practice.
